How to Interact With Social Media Rock Stars…and Others

30 comments Written on December 22nd, 2009 by
Categories: Events, Social Media, Strategy

I had a great networking opportunity last night when I was able to meet Chris Brogan, a leading social media marketing professional (and most will say the top person in his field) and author of the book Trust Agents.  My good friend Dave Thomas, Social Media Manager at SAS invited myself and some local social media geeks and gurus to a great evening at The Pit BBQ to meet Chris, Justin Levy and some of his team from New Marketing Labs.  It was a great pleasure to meet them as well as other people from SAS who I know well and others I had an opportunity to meet for the first time.

It’s awesome to meet someone with such knowledge, experience and star power in your field or any person with some degree of celebrity.  At the same time it’s similar to when my good friend Jimmy Shoaf worked for bands like Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Rage Against the Machine and several others back in the Grunge days.  I had opportunity to meet those guys as well, on tour with Lollapalooza, backstage at the 9:30 Club in DC and even driving Alice in Chains guitarist Jerry Cantrell to The Five-O on a Sunday night before their first show in Raleigh back in 91!  By the way, nobody knew who they were or how famous they would become, we played pool and it was a low key Sunday night at our favorite bar.

In all of these instances the avid fan in me wants to say, “You’re so great, tell me how you do it?” But I know these guys, especially the rock stars, hear that all the time and get tired of it.  What they really want to do is just be themselves and meet other people.  I know if I had to be “ON” all the time as a public persona I would tire of it too and build a big house with gates and hide out at times!

But the real value I derived from last night was seeing all the people that I interact with on a regular ongoing basis in my local business community.  Several of the people I know from business relationships by working with SAS over the past four years.  Others are former co-workers and marketing peers that I know from my involvement with Triangle AMA.  And there was also a group that I would call my Internet family that I’ve met and engaged with online using social networks that has enabled the opportunity to meet and get to know them.  What I get out of theses connections is solid information, experience and best practices, advice, humor and most of time friendship.

So instead of being the annoying fan I like to meet the Chris Brogans and Jerry Cantrells of the world and just see who they are, tell them I like what they are doing and learn a little bit about who they are as a human being.  The evening was a great event because it was just that.  The conversations centered around what holiday preparations and traditions, our families, events and a little social media strategy.  My takeaway from meeting Chris was that he was a big Beatles fan like me and an extremely engaging and intelligent person regardless of his current position.  So when you meet the bigwigs or anyone else in your field be yourself, engage in a conversation and see where it leads to.  LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook and all the networks are in place for us to engage each other in meaningful conversations, storytelling and transactions.

Social media and networks are a means to an end.  Networking is key in building and maintaining your career.  Take for example my good friend Chris Moody.  I met Chris when he was interning at SAS in 2006.  His team was working on measuring partner engagement and he impressed me and was a really genuine person as well.  His internship ended and we stayed in touch over the past few years, seen each other at events and grabbed a few lunches to catch up.  Recently he called me to ask me to be a reference and he got a great job at Bandwidth.com.  I was happy to help him out and enjoyed seeing him garner the right position for his skills, talent and enthusiasm.  I know that Chris and I will be talking about marketing and other kick ass technology for many years to come because we have a great professional and personal relationship.

I do want to thank Dave Thomas and the team at SAS for engaging with such talented individuals like Chris Brogan and allowing us to share in their experience.  I want to thank Chris and his team for their time and interaction as well.

Are you engaging your local community in your field?  Have you used social networking to find others like you?

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About the Author: Brian McDonald
http://www.squarejawmedia.com
Brian McDonald started Square Jaw Media to document strategies and techniques he had used over his experience working in marketing and communications since 1990. During this time Brian wrote about many of the exciting Raleigh social media events where great knowledge was being shared and tries to share some of the tips and tricks.
  • http://wayne-sutton.com Wayne Sutton

    Nice recap Brian. It was a great night out with peers and friends.

  • http://www.followgreg.com Chelvis

    Good post Brian! I moved here in 2008 and have met most of my business contacts through social media. I try my best to engage people on a personal level through Twitter and Facebook as well as make it out to events as much as I can. I have found that its the cocktail of in person and online interaction that creates the most impact.

  • http://wineaccguy.blogspot.com Joshua S. Sweeney

    Very good advice for someone like me, new to using social media as a business.

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Thanks Greg. I agree that the real interaction is when we go past the screen to the human interface.

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Totally! I'm still amazed at the talent and passion of the “locals” especially YOU in creating a great atmosphere in little ole Raleighwood! Keep up the good work!

  • http://www.1918.com/ 1918

    When I was married to Britney Spears in January of 2004 I noticed the same thing, lots of hangers-on and such, then when we divorced 15 minutes later… oh, wait, that's a different story.

    Really Brian, good point. It's all about the network you build. If someone like Chris Brogan is in your network, that's awesome, but you can be as awesome as you want with or without him, it's all up to you.

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Thanks I'm glad you found it useful. Let me know if you need help with your strategy or just want to brainstorm.

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Hey I did not get invited to that wedding! Britney never told me!

    All kidding aside you are correct in that we have some great stuff locally like SEO Meetup! Hey someone should write a blog post about that!

  • marciebarnes

    Hey – I know who Jimmy Shoaf is, did you go to Millbrook? I am sorry I didn't get to meet you last night. And I agree, rock stars are people too, most of them want to be treated that way :-)

  • http://www.chris-moody.com Chris Moody

    Remember Brian, I only accept cash for talking positively about you.

    Nice post!

  • http://blogs.sas.com/sasdummy Chris Hemedinger

    Brian, great post. In my mind I'll go ahead and allocate 1/2 of your favorable references to “Chris” as being meant for me.

    I've had a chance to meet a few famous people over the past couple of years: Dave Barry, Carl Kassell, Roy Blount Jr., Mo Rocca, and now Chris Brogan (and of course, Brian McDonald). I find them to be Regular People…who happen to have done great work that has made them really well known.

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Yes I went to Millbrook but only for my senior year. That is where I met Jimmy and have been friends ever since. I'm sure we'll cross paths again and we can talk about all the old ghosts!

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Chris you have me cracking up! I think at one time my circle of friends had like 8 people named Chris in it! Good thing Chris Moody is no longer at SAS or I feel that I could start a rumble over there!

    Thanks for your comments and great to finally meet you. We need to get together and talk about SAS blogging as I have to replace my social media rock star at Zencos (i.e. Angela Hall)!

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    OK I'll print the bills tonight!

  • http://wayne-sutton.com Wayne Sutton

    Thanks but it's people like you who keep it going. #brocommentmance

  • jeremysaid

    Great recap. I agree with you here. Being a local celebrity at the Pit is very difficult at times so I completely comprehend the “you're so great” comment. Ok ok, just kidding. I had to go there for a second.

    As I back down off of my soapbox, I can attest to the power of the local community more so than ever. Becoming a part of the Triangle AMA is how I met you and we instantly hit it off. Moving downtown has tremendously helped our business but more importantly has allowed me to establish life long friendships in a matter of months. The ability to engage with local social media people in this community further shows the importance of the relationship. It's all about the relationship at the end of the day. Thanks for being a great friend and I am going to get you a Twine jacket for Christmas.

  • http://twitter.com/joeycos joey costanzo

    Brian great post I can definitely relate to the meeting a Rock Star thing. Reminds me of that time when we were back stage for Rage Against the Machine in DC and our mutual friend proceeded to insult one of the band members and chase him from the room. It is hard to walk that line when you are an avid fan of a well know personality and engage in the appropriate conversation. Being new to Social Media, and thank you for helping me see the light, I can definitely see the value. I work in the Raleigh Cary area but home is the coast and when not working or on site that is where i want to be. So that has not given me the opportunity to really get out and network over the years. With Twitter and Linked in I do feel more connected with like minded folks and to me that is what is so great! One of these times i might even be able to coordinate a work trip with a meetup and get to meet a lot of folks in person. Love the content and the way you boil it down!

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Ahh the mayor battles! The Pit could be the proving grounds!

    Yes the network of people grows and grows and I am so happy to call you a friend! Even more so if you get me a Twine Jacket!

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    You hit the nail on the head Joey! We should write a post about circle of friends and peers and the staying power of great friendships like yours and mine that have lasted 20+ years! The amount of knowledge we have exchanged over that time is tremendous!

  • http://twitter.com/mediatwo_social Morgan Siem

    Your point is right on about the importance of engaging your local community. That is one of the top joys of my job – getting to socialize (both online and off) with all you find Triangle folks. That point was brought home to me when I was reading Phil Buckley (@1918)'s latest blog post (http://www.1918.com/my-persona-rock-stars/) which asks, who are your social media rock stars? Who would you jump off the couch to go see? There are plenty of big wigs who I look up to and whose knowledge I respect. But the only people I'd jump off a couch to go see are people I already know. Many of them are among the commentors here.

  • Carin Arrigo-Zimmer

    Hey Brian~

    I wasn't invited to ANY of Britney's weddings. Real bummer…

    On the social media front, what I've noticed most about the “rock stars”? Their ability to communicate extremely well as real live human beings, which, according to many, they are. Their ability of making lasting friendships is duly noted as well. Just my .02 observation of the day. Enjoyed your post!

  • http://www.chris-moody.com Chris Moody

    Did I hear Twine jacket? Ohhhhhh. Please Santa!

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    I love your perspective here, Brian. I mean, despite all the press, I'm just a dude. I pay someone to put my pants on one leg at a time, just like you.

    I agree that keeping up your local relationships is really important. They're who will help you through all the crazy times. Me? I'm just a drifter. : ) Glad we chatted and especially about the Beatles.

    See you next time. : )

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    You met the Wait Wait guys? Oh… major envy!

  • http://twitter.com/cjdinger Chris Hemedinger

    Chris, yes…my wife and I are NPR geeks.
    http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=117682&id…

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Thanks Chris for your comment. I'm glad we had a chance to meet and hope you get to come down to our little slice of Carolina Heaven more often. Working on some really neat stuff that may be in place when you come back down.

    Also thanks for telling me to read Crush It first. I'm now digging into Trust Agents and excited to further my learning in social media and how it pertains to marketing and communications. Have a great holidays!

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Carin,

    Man we got left out of the weddings!!! Glad you liked the post and yes the true value of social media is the long lasting relationships that we create.

  • Carin Arrigo-Zimmer

    Hello, excuse my interruption yet feel I must. I shall be brief.

    Brian, I don't know you but reading your work makes me wanna come visit NC even more than I did before. (I'm a suburban Cali girl)

    Chris Brogan, So glad you drifted into Orange, CA a few months ago, hence, I wouldn't have had the opportunity to see you at Chapman University, thus beginning my new marriage of real estate and gentle usage of social media. Keep on a-driftin', you wonderful dude, you.

    And Chris Hemedinger, Wait, Wait guy. Love it! Carl Kasell is king!

  • http://squarejawmedia.com Brian McDonald

    Carin I'm so happy that my little bit of marketing blogging is drawing you our way! Let us know if you make it to Raleigh and we'll take you to The Pit so you can have some awesome BBQ and social engagement!

    Don't forget Carl Kasell is from North Carolina, all good roads lead here!!

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